Episode 35: Text Me When You Get Home

Hi QTs! Welcome to Episode 35! We read Text Me When You Get Home by Kayleen Schaefer.

We discuss: how women are, indeed, capable of having friendships; tears, blood, cervical mucus, uterine linings; the word moist; Skype’s banning of Ashley; the slightly repetitiveness of including so much Parks and Rec info in the book; the fact that it’s slightly less thrilling than Helter Skelter; Olivias hatred of Girls; the myth of the “cool girl;” how we know noooothing about sororities; reflections on our own friendships; and sooo much more.

We read: Text Me When You Get Home by Kayleen Schaefer
Up next: All the Single Ladies by Rebecca Traister

Olivia drinks: a Red Blend from the Corner Market (don’t ask questions)
Ashley drinks: an Ultimate Margarita (thanks Peppers!)

Music by our pal Matt Costa!

Episode 34: Between the World and Me

OMG we’re back. No, seriously, we are. On this episode, we discuss Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates.

In this episode: we think this is a book all white Americans should read, how engaging the book is, the epistemological form, how his description of parenting resonated for us (two non-parents, lol), how its a privilege for white people to avoid reading this because of fear of how intense it may be, the concept of whiteness (check out the podcast Scene On Radio’s series Seeing White for more on that topic), and how it’s time to bump Romeo and Juliet for Between the World and Me on required reading lists. ENJOY, drunkers!

We read: Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
Up next: Text Me When You Get Home by Kayleen Schaefer

Olivia drinks: a chardonnay from a former employee
Ashley drinks: a sour margarita that is no longer sour

Music by our pal Matt Costa!

Episode 33: An American Marriage

Hey QTs! This month’s episode is on the wonderful An American Marriage by Tayari Jones. Have you read it yet? If not, what are you waiting for???

In this episode, we discuss: the fact that we didn’t take any notes because we were too busy reading and loving this book, crying in public about books, family bonds, predicting and peeking at the end of books, what is marriage and what makes a good one?, idealized representations of romance, people viewed as archetypes, and how realistic is a store for dolls that cost hundreds of dollars? (oh wait, American Girl dolls are a thing…).

Olivia drinks: a huge bottle of Malbec rose (with an adorbs love story attached)
Ashley drinks: sauvignon blanc

We read: An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
Up next: Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

Music by our pal Matt Costa!

Episode 32: My Brilliant Friend

Hey drunkers! We’re back with this month’s episode! This time, we read My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante… only like six years after everybody else went wild for it. We’re finally jumping on the bandwagon, just for you.

In this episode, we discuss: juggling the many characters of this book, the abrupt ending that left us with no closure, confusing character motivations, untrustworthy narratives, bad book covers, jealousy mixed with love, and how (through the course of this conversation) we realized that we now want to read the rest of the novels in this series. It’s wild, y’all.

Olivia drinks: wine of some sort
Ashley drinks: a gin and tonic, what the hell else?

We read: My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante
Up next: An American Marriage by Tayari Jones

Music by: Matt Costa!

Episode 31: The H Spot

Oh my MOTHERFRICKING GOOOOD y’all, it’s been forever a day, but we are bacccckkkkk! This episode, we’re discussing The H Spot: The Feminist Pursuit of Happiness by Jill Filipovic.

We discuss: the need to fight for happiness (in addition to equality), the power of female friendships, our opinions about women changing their names when they marry (spoiler alert, we totally don’t get why people do it), early-2000s fashions (which to keep and which to ditch), disturbing sexual expectations in our culture, when to back the fuck off, the Aziz Ansari article, and so much more. Enjoy, babes!

Olivia drinks: 2013 Red Blend by Prophecy (with the really pretty label)
Ashley drinks: a gin and tonic (what the hell else?)

We read: The H Spot: The Feminist Pursuit of Happiness by Jill Filipovic
Up next: My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante

Music by: Matt Costa!

Episode 30: Hunger

Hello, lovelies! We’re back with an episode about Hunger by Roxane Gay. Y’all, it is SUCH a great read.

We discussed: how fantastically crafted and poetic this work is, how relatable and authentic it is, the desire to MAKE everybody read this book (required reading, folks), the complexities of being fat that Gay explores and talks about so genuinely, UGH AND SO MUCH MOREEEEE. PLUS an update on our real reaction to Evan’s book suggestion. We drag him for a bit.

Olivia drinks: coffee w/ heavy whipping cream
Ashley drinks: the same thang

We read: Hunger by Roxane Gay
Up next: The H-Spot by Jill Filipovic

Music by: Matt Costa!

Episode 29: How to Weep in Public

Well, lovelies, we’re back with episode 29! This week we read How to Weep in Public: Feeble Offerings on Depression from One Who Knows by Jacqueline Novak. We enjoyed it vv much and have lotsa smart things to stay.

We discuss: Bright Eyes connections (Olivia’s one true love), whether or not this could be considered a memoir, an error Olivia found, the privilege our dear author displays and acknowledges at points, how this book is kind of hard to discuss, our appreciation for Novak’s approach to talking about depression, the relatability of this book for multiple audiences, and soooomuchmore.

Olivia drinks: sauvignon blanc
Ashley drinks: gin&tonic
(damn we’re creatures of habit)

We read: How to Weep in Public: Feeble Offerings on Depression from One Who Knows by Jacqueline Novak
Up next: Hunger by Roxane Gay

Music by: Matt Costa!